We would all want to believe that being in a relationship would be easy, something like second nature to all of us, the way we can probably tap our feet to music. And when we are actually in the midst of one we recognize that it really isn't that easy. It fact, relationships are complex and complicated, akin to tango - a dance form requiring perfect synchronicity, a degree of elegance and poise, with an inherent musicality and playfulness that needs to be associated with it.
And it's the same with relationships. They too involve two individuals who need to match up to each others' rhythm and pace, work in sync with each other, trying to find the right degree of coordination and balance.
The essence lies in the need to be in consonance with each other, working up a symphony in its harmonious complexity in order to make things work. Traditionally, women have been seen as the beacons working to bring about changes and adaptations to make things work in a relationship. But with the growing changes in the Indian society along with the changes in the roles that women play, this view is also undergoing a significant transformation.
No longer is a relationship seen as the sole responsibility of the woman. There is an acknowledgement of the need for both individuals in the relationship to try and make things work together, to understand each other, to build a knowledge of what each one likes or dislikes, needs or desires, is motivated or driven towards, and to support each other through the challenges and difficulties that life brings forth.
Relationships are a dance...tango...so dance away to the music of life together with your partner...but the key word is together...
And it's the same with relationships. They too involve two individuals who need to match up to each others' rhythm and pace, work in sync with each other, trying to find the right degree of coordination and balance.
The essence lies in the need to be in consonance with each other, working up a symphony in its harmonious complexity in order to make things work. Traditionally, women have been seen as the beacons working to bring about changes and adaptations to make things work in a relationship. But with the growing changes in the Indian society along with the changes in the roles that women play, this view is also undergoing a significant transformation.
No longer is a relationship seen as the sole responsibility of the woman. There is an acknowledgement of the need for both individuals in the relationship to try and make things work together, to understand each other, to build a knowledge of what each one likes or dislikes, needs or desires, is motivated or driven towards, and to support each other through the challenges and difficulties that life brings forth.
Relationships are a dance...tango...so dance away to the music of life together with your partner...but the key word is together...
yes ofcourse like they say it takes two to tango so ,,,, there you are.
ReplyDeleteRelationship is complicated word and a delicate one. One has to nurture it with love and care and both individuals play equal role in it. I think you need to be soulmates first to have that sinchronisation. Then the the music is soothing to the ears and the dance happens on its own......
when the balance is there from both individuals then it is a harmonious symphony.......